Born in Maine 1816. [Findagrave photo of gravestone]
Living in Corinna, Maine in 1850
his mother and several siblings moved in with him when his father died (same year.)
A Farmer
NOTE: Wife was listed as 'Cynthia -' in a few sources but Cynthia was his sister
Abbie (about 1832 - 24 August 1876) was the daughter of Joshua & Eliza; buried with parents in Crowell Cemetery, Exeter, Maine
Carrie TREFETHEN1100 was said to have thought Ben was buried in Houlton, Maine. [12 March 2021 - Apparently Benjamin was buried Milo - Andrew Trefethen]
Married Abbie in March 1855 (Dexter Town Records)
Married Ruth on 8 November 1877 in Dexter, Maine by J.S. Richards. Both were from Dexter [Source 36: Maine Vital Records - Marriages (at Salt Lake City)]
Ruth was born 1827
Ruth died in 1904.
SOURCES:
64. TREFETHEN, Joanne E.0334 - Correspondence, Stockton Springs, Maine. Deceased 26 July 2004
141. FAMILY CHART drawn by Charles F. D. Marsh & provided by Robert True (Source 139) to download the actual chart, click on the underlined part. Maybe you will read it differently!