Born & Died in Dover, New Hampshire [Source 64: The Sterling Genealogy by Alfred Mack Sterling, 1909 ]. Source 36: Dover Census 1860; Source 36: Dover New Hampshire Newspaper Extracts]
64. TREFETHEN, Joanne E.0334 - Correspondence, Stockton Springs, Maine. Deceased 26 July 2004
The Sterling Genealogy Volume 2, page 1045, by Alfred Mack Sterling, 1909 (see the image on this page)]. View the book online here or as a pdf here. TREFETHENS don’t show up in Volume 1, but you can see it here.